阿比-艾莉爸爸 成長歷奇

Stories about me, my family and my daughters, Abigail & Eliana.

Abigail Jackline--Father's joy. To Connie and me, Abigail is a wonderful blessing from God, our precious jewel. God blessed us with Abigail as Connie and I went through the journey of infertility.

Eliana Faith--God answers. God hears our cries and heals us not only emotionally, but He also gives us Eliana, a precious gift, as a sign of his faithfulness.

Tuesday, April 03, 2007

訓練

Abby和阿比爸爸近幾天也正在面對很多新挑戰呢!

爸爸的挑戰:正在鍛煉分身術,究竟怎樣能分配時間陪女兒玩、陪太太傾訴、做好學校的工作、以及有些微時間作自己的空間?我不禁發現很困難,至今只能減少了睡眠時間,長期這般「犧牲」也不是辦法,祈求阿爸天父教我善用每刻。

BB的挑戰:阿比爸爸與媽媽近日常帶Abby到運動場做運動!事緣我家鄰的運動場裡有一個偌大的兒童嬉戲室,裡面地下鋪上了軟墊,又有一些軟墊做的梯級和斜坡。我和太太便乘機要BB多爬地,要爬上梯級又爬下來。BB其實不太愛爬,快便停下來。遇到這情況我和太太都變得不再是善男信女,用身上不同的物件,例如銀包、電話、鑰匙來逗她爬去拿,BB竟然中計爬去拿,但我們往往見她快要拿到手時便又拿開一點,要她爬得更遠,BB便很無奈地一邊爬,一邊埋怨!情景也頗有趣。我倆都笑大家算是場內最殘忍的家長。

幾日來在嬉戲室看到不少小孩,見他們行動很自如,又不像是大BB多少,心裡不禁會期望BB可以儘快學到,有時看見BB的境況卻換來有失望的情緒。Well,我要學調整自己的期望,亦要對BB充滿信心、盼望呢!其實BB正是逐小逐小的的在進步中呢!她今天在家已能在屋裡爬往不同的房間,而且在嬉戲室爬梯級時比以前更快、動作更流暢。大家要繼續為BB打氣呀!^_^

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  2. Hi, this is Alfred (Ma chun Kit), graduate from class of 1999? How have you been doing, I didn't even know you got married..^^". You seemed to have a happy family and I am sure you are still one of the most popular teachers at school.
    I saw the pictures of you daughter and she looks very cute and smart. I am sure you will be a good father. Now that I see your daughter, I wanted a child too...though I know I am still too young...^^"
    Wish you and your family all the best and take care~

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